5 Wedding Planning Mistakes Montreal Couples Regret (And How to Avoid Them)

5 WEDDING PLANNING MISTAKES MONTREAL COUPLES REGRET (AND HOW TO AVOID THEM)

And How to Avoid Them for a Smooth, Joyful Day

Planning a wedding in Montreal or anywhere in Quebec? Whether you're tying the knot in Old Montreal, hosting a rustic barn celebration in the Eastern Townships, or eloping by the St. Lawrence, the lead-up to your big day matters. Avoiding common pre-wedding mistakes can make a huge difference in how calm, present, and joyful you feel on the day itself.

Here are 5 mistakes we see often as wedding photographers (and a married couple ourselves)—and how to sidestep them like a pro.

1. Forgetting to Set Boundaries Early On

Let’s be real: everyone has an opinion when it comes to weddings. Parents, friends, even coworkers might chime in—especially if they’re helping pay for the celebration. They want to control your timeline.

The fix? Set clear boundaries early. Before diving into Pinterest boards and venue tours, take time with your partner to dream up what you want. Are you imagining a formal black-tie affair? A chill, backyard BBQ? A cozy winter elopement in Old Montreal?

Write it down. Know your non-negotiables. When you’re aligned from the start, it’s easier to make decisions and stick to them—without second-guessing every detail.

2. Skipping Meals (Yes, Really!)

It sounds basic, but it’s one of the biggest mistakes we see. Your wedding day starts early and ends late—and running on adrenaline doesn’t count as fuel.

We once photographed a wedding where the groom fainted during the ceremony… all because he skipped breakfast.

The fix? Make time to eat. Pack protein-rich snacks and keep water on hand. A bit of candy before the ceremony for quick energy? Never a bad idea. Your body (and your photos!) will thank you.

3. Underestimating the Budget

A big mistake Montreal couples make is focusing only on per-head pricing and forgetting the extras—like flowers, permits for photo locations, transportation, backup rentals for rain, and yes, last-minute alterations.

The fix? Build a realistic budget—and then add a buffer. Talk with your vendors early to understand what's included. We’re happy to walk through how photography timelines and pricing work for your specific day.

And remember, it’s not about how much you spend—it’s about how it feels. We’ve photographed intimate backyard weddings that cost very little but were overflowing with love.

4. Not Having a Rain Plan

Montreal weather is unpredictable—even in summer. If your ceremony or photos are outdoors, make sure you’re not scrambling for cover in case of rain or wind.

The fix? Your venue and photographer should both have contingency plans. We always scout locations with a Plan B in mind and can pivot quickly if needed.

A rainy day doesn’t mean ruined photos. It often means softer light, romantic umbrellas, and unexpected magic.

5. Neglecting Your Partner

It’s easy to get caught up in to-do lists, color palettes, and table arrangements. But this day isn’t about details—it’s about the two of you.

The fix? Schedule time during the day to just be together. A private first look. A few deep breaths before the ceremony. A quick stroll at sunset between cocktail hour and dinner.

Your photos (and your hearts) will reflect those quiet, connected moments.

Let’s Help You Focus on What Matters

We’re Mandy & Randy, wedding photographers based in Bromont, serving Montreal, the Eastern Townships, and all across Quebec. Our job is to help you feel relaxed, supported, and totally present on your wedding day.

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